Basic Tips On Online And Offline Dating
Here are simple suggestions on researching dating online and offline:
- Team up with a male friend to approach women who are by themselves. This method works very well at clubs, bar-rooms, beaches, etc. Why does this give you an advantage? Because she’s less likely to reject two men together than one man approaching her alone. Why? Because you look more convivial; you’ve got your pal with you and you don’t appear like a ‘lone wolf’ or oddball. You’ve got a bit of intellectual support as well! Then it’s up to you and your ally which one is going to court her.
– How will you know if a girl is interested in you? She gives you a second glance. Try smiling. If she smiles back, you’re in! It’s a myth that men gain women by chasing them. Women assess men, then give the big gits ‘the come on’. You just need the self-confidence to walk over and say hello. If you can think of a witty remark, make one. If you can’t, just smile. Say hello. Ask a pertinent question. Then listen to what she has to say. Which, if she likes you, will be a lot.
– A good reservoir of enquiry is the magazine rack in your local supermarket. Men should look at womens’ magazines, and vice-versa. Men will notice that women fantasise about men who are: Pretty-boys, slim, muscular (like a swimmer, not a weight-lifter), fashionably dressed-up, patrician, tight-fitting trousers, attentive, moneyed, powerful, positive, popular, makes her laugh, takes control, can discuss his feelings now and again, yet isn’t a wet dish-cloth.
– A harmful habit: smoking. If you smoke, you’re depriving yourself of the society of legions of women. I know the weed is devilishly hard to kick. The brain craves it. But many women won’t go out with you if you smoke. Separate from the burden on your health, it causes your hair and clothes to smell bad, and your mouth to savor of an ashtray. Give the grimy habit up, and spend the money you save turning yourself out nicely.
– Don’t over-think it. We are drawn to a certain type, with whom we can make a better baby; more sturdy, healthier, smarter, better adapted to its environs. Other types just don’t click with us, ‘though we can acknowledge intellectually they are attractive. It’s a heart thing, a guts thing, and parts lower down. The head merely gives its acquiescence to a decision already made.
– You’ll have a lot more confidence if you’ve got some cash in the bank, a flat and a motorcar of your own; these ought to be a priority. You ought to also dress well. Dressing well means your appearance exudes power: you’re in command of your destiny. Women like to be looked after; project that you can do that, and you’re half-way home. Your personal circumstances likewise affect how you behave: a man who is actually well-off will externalize that unconsciously, and be more successful with women.
– Examine your reactions to women objectively. You’ll find that a favourite type emerges: slender or plump, dark or fair, extroverted or introverted. There’s a pop or movie star that you can’t help but gawk at while she’s on the screen. There’s a type that causes your head to pivot when you’re walking down the street. That’s the type you should go for; the one that excites a machine-like, favourable response. You’ll find it easier to speak to this kind of girl. If you have found your true love she’ll feel the same way about you. You have genes that’ll help her make a better baby; she does the same for you.
– Conspicuous consumption suggests that you are not tight with your money. Demonstrate this by spending some on her, or giving her some! Don’t be a sap, however; if the chemistry ain’t there, on BOTH sides, move on. You can’t pester or buy a woman into loving you, ‘though they may be loath to turn away a ’sugar daddy’ entirely. When true love strikes, you’ll both know it; accept no alternative!
I hope these few basic tips will assist you in finding a nice girl via dating offline or online.
About the author: N. Svengali is an author for free online dating service and self improvement web sites in London, UK.
