How Shy Women Can Flirt With Men
Is not that easy to coquette with men, as it first seems. Excessive attention paid to males may lead them to think you aren’t worth the attention from them. Women should know that men with low self esteem do not like it when they play ‘hard to get’. The successful flirter takes two steps forward and one step back. When you want to flirt with a man it is extremely important to incorporate touching of some kind into the process. Let men make the first step, that the first rule in flirting.
Walk towards them in the bar and give them eye contact. Lean nearby or reach across them to pickup a napkin or a drink. If the other party does not fall for it, then perhaps try extracting a longer response by asking them a question. Do not use classic pick up lines like, ‘do you come here often? Or ‘My name is so-and-so, what’s yours? What you could do is distract them with an intelligent question, which will put them at ease and make you look like an interesting person. Tell them you have a friend in town and you need to know the best place for sushi or bowling. Ask them if you can guess their profession based only on their work clothes.
Alternately, you could tell them you are great at guessing people’s names from their appearance. When they ask you for personal information, play coy. This is one of my best kept flirting secrets that works extremely well. Don’t allow the conversation to turn into a rapid fire interrogation, and don’t be in a big hurry to agree to everything the other person says. If you’re flirting with a guy who didn’t come alone, just wait for him to come back later. A small talk with his buddy’s about you will encourage him in taking action.
You can make someone more comfortable with confidence and you can challenge a natural, but you cannot control someone’s abilities. And always remember what is most important to put on display: Your personality By flirting the right way you can literally make any man want you – even if they were not interested previously.
