I guess everyone feels the same way, being dumped is never a nice thing to deal with, especially after you have put so much effort, energy, and love into making everything work fine. Well, you can pick yourself up and recover after being dumped and get your ex girlfriend back. This may be a challenging task for you, but it is definitely not impossible to do. After you were dumped, you need to give your ex girlfriend at least a week without calling her, so things can settle down and smooth over, expecially if the circumstances you were dumped in were really bad.

Wait about one week after the break up, then start calling your ex and tell her you just wanted to make sure that she is OK and that you are willing to sit down and talk with her about anyhting and that no matter of the break up you will be there for her in case she needs you. Whatever you do, never ever let her know that you feel hurt and want her back desperately. Come off in conversation not as if you are trying to get them back, but as if you are just trying to be a good friend to them.

The next thing you should do is start sending flowers to your ex girlfriend once a week; make sure it is nothing fancy, just some lillies or something, or roses, just to show them that you are thinking of them and they are on your mind and you hope they are fine. You can even invite your ex out for lunch or something simple so that you two can hang out and get to know each other all over again as friends first. At this point your ex should not be thinking that you are trying to get back with them, but just trying to be a really good ex boyfriend or girlfriend. In the course of trying to get your ex girlfriend back, you should be trying new things that you had not tried with them before or things that they always wanted you to do while you two were dating, but you did not do, all the while making it seem like you are just trying to be a good friend and better person to them than you were.

It is a good idea to keep this routine of communicating with your ex girlfriend on a real friendly level for a while so that they will come to the point to realize what a nice guy you are and develop those feelings which they had for you once again. Due to the fact that you will completely different from the way you used to be when you started dating your ex wil will start thinking why on earth they dumped you in the first place. This should eventually lead to you two developing a whole new relationship together both on a friend and intimate level. When you get back together, I am sure that your new relationship will be a lot better than before.

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