Practical Flirting Advice for Men
Let’s begin learning how to flirt with girls. When you’re first starting out, flirting can be a bit challenging, but with a bit of practice, it’s really quite fun.
Before we get into this, though, I wand to make something clear. Flirting should be enjoyable. If you’re too uptight about it or if you come off like some sort of pervert, then that’s not fun for anyone. This just straight up won’t get you anywhere.
Don’t forget that flirting should communicate two messages. First it will broadcast a sexual attraction to her. And it should also leave the woman feeling better about herself.
Here is how to flirt with a girl:
Remember the first part is to show an interest in her. The reason behind this is that it lets her know that you want to be more than friends without being direct about it. The most powerful way to get this point across to the girl is to tell her that she is sexy. Not pretty. Not beautiful. Just sexy!
Now you can’t just say this to her coming from nowhere. If you do this you’ll be just the same as all the frustrating jerks that she just rolls her eyes at. To make sure this doesn’t happen we take the second part of flirting into consideration.
Flirting should be a enjoyable and uplifting experience for the girl. You have to talk to a woman first to evaluate her mood before you try to flirt with her or else you run the risk of hitting a nerve. Have her contribute a little bit of herself to the conversation. Get her to share with you how she feels about something. Then modify that as something you can use to flirt with her.
Here is an example of how you want to flirt. If she’s studying French in college, then have her tell you something in French. Then after she says something, say something like “Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore. It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.”
Did you notice? I just told her that I found her sexy and complimented her on something she shared.
Now she has the opportunity to flirt back. If it’s her style she could try speaking in French for the rest of the evening just to see what would happen to me. That’s just how easy it can be.
Here’s another trick to make this even more potent is using pushing and pulling. Begin with comment that will give the woman the impression that you are rejecting her. Then you follow that up by immediately pulling her back in with a compliment. This is a perfect way to keep her guessing and make you look like a fun and exciting guy.
Let’s take a closer look at the last example.
“Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore.” — This is the beginning push. It seems a little insulting.
“It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.” — This is the pull that keeps her interested. You simply take what comes off like a rejection and turn it into a compliment.
This is the secret to flirting with a girl. This is actually really easy once you’ve done it a few times and it becomes automatic. But after you get it you are good as gold. Now go out and start flirting with some women.
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