Signs of Cheating In a Relationship
Is your partner working late? Are there multiple company functions? They say they are going out with “friends” more then they did before? These signs could mean your partner is doing more than working, they are cheating.
Some Common Signs of Cheating
Lose something green in your wallet? If your partner is hiding bills, only tells you the amounts to be paid, locks bills in files that you cannot get into, shreds them, or even has them sent to work, there is probably something going on that you don’t know about. Maybe their attitude toward you or other things change? Normally, they won’t want to spend time with their family, and their money becomes more important.
You feel avoided. They feel annoyed by kids, and their job. They get defensive of subjects, such as affairs, and they are more secretive about things going one and become lazy. Their daily schedule begins to look different to you, and they leave suspicious items, like gift cards and gifts, laying around. They begin to not want you touching their cell phone, and PDA. There could be unknown numbers or photos on these items. Your partner could start coming home late, and they could smell like alcohol.
Other signs of cheating include them picking fights, stomping out of the house, not wanting to shop with you, not wanting to come with you to visit your family, and “forgetting” their wedding ring. You’ll start to notice a not familiar smell on their clothes, and you’ll notice that they care about how they look more than normal. They work long hours; work on weekends or days off. They never answer their phones. They use their phone more than normal, and receive messages at crazy times.
Your partner may tell you that they aren’t cheating, you are. Your partner may be less interested in sex. They may be figuring out your schedule constantly, so they can have their affair work out.
All in all, you need to listen to what your gut says, even if you still love them. You partner could hurt you more than you expected if you don’t follow your gut.
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